One huge perk of being back in California is being surrounded by people that love our kids and are willing to gift Chris and I with a night out. Because the truth is, we still need to date. We need to find the space to talk about the things that we normally sweep under the rug. Something other than the seemingly monotonous chore of keeping house and which one of us is going to drive our kids to school. Most of the time we spend the first hour working through our funk and the remainder of the date remembering how much we love each other and why. Doing life with this dude is pretty fantastic and I don't want to miss out on just how fantastic it can be by not being intentional. So, bring on the date nights baby.